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Peg's avatar

This essay is SO GOOD. I can relate to it in many ways. Thank you, Mandy, for taking the time and for taking the risk of being vulnerable and honest.

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Hi Mandy, I took your memoir class at UBC many moons ago and love your work. I personally dealt with secondary infertility for a few years, but I am very fortunate that we managed to have 2 kids. I really relate with your post, and I am sorry that you are dealing with this and it is turning out this way. I wondered if you had heard of a friend's graphic novel about her grueling journey to motherhood - its messy, raw and very intimate - not everyone's cup of tea, but I thought I would pass it along. Your keen eye on this is really quite satisfying to read - I will check out the alternatives to the nuclear family link suggested. Family life and motherhood are indeed very fraught even when they are hard won. https://www.cataloguebabynovel.com/

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