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I really like the way you express your words. In the last couple of weeks, I have been watching Peter Santenello's YouTube channel where he made a couple of documentary videos about Appalachia, and it was such an eye-opening experience for me. I highly recommend that everyone take a look at it. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEyPgwIPkHo5If6xyrkr-s2I6yz23o0av

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Thank you! I will check these out. :)

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Thank you for articulating this in real time. The inclusion of the bike ride

context of this evocation of resonating "rooted beyond th rootlessness" provides a contemplation a reader can gather into, and exercise a deeper awareness of their own longing... and (perhaps) undeveloped connections to internal voices that seem remote, but (perhaps) that awareness is keyhole access on the road to opening the door to them. I appreciated your delving into it, made even more poignant by the connection to Kingsolver's work.

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Gosh, Mandy, your writing is so sharp and clear. Thank you so much for sharing it with the world. I grew up in small, homogenous communities, but as someone who wasn't from there and who envied those who had the deep, multi-generational roots and sense of belonging. Thanks for stretching my brain with a different, and complex, POV. :)

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Thank you, Sarah!

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Hey Mandy, I just came back to reread your post because I finished the audiobook about 10 minutes ago. I was absolutely captivated. I am now going to go see if I can find the actual accent since you said that this one is not quite right. I don’t really have anything articulate to say besides that, I agree with you that Barbara Kingsolver managed to bring out the beauty of the place and why you would want to live there even as she made the hard parts very clear. Fucking capitalism &etc.

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Thanks, Sarah. Maybe one day after I've had a drink or two I can do it for you... "fucking capitalism &etc." really covers so much ground in so many cases.

This is the best thing I found on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=watK3mhw5Bw&ab_channel=CelebratingAppalachia

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I would love this, Mandy. Also, JUBEROUS is my new favourite word!!

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This is so beautiful and thoughtful, Mandy (just like you are!). We just took our teens to Europe, and I experienced a version of what you’re writing about here while in Krakow, Poland. My dad has been dead for 21 years, but his family was Polish, so being there brought up such strong feelings in me. I felt a longing, and a sadness, but also a deep appreciation and bond with this place that formed my grandfather, my dad, me, and now my kids. Our histories are powerful and nuanced entities - endlessly fascinating to explore and discover.

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Thanks for sharing this. It sounds like a really wonderful (if complex!) experience. My partner was born in Poland and I have fantasies about taking our kids there one day. He doesn't seem to have the same complicated, ambivalent feelings that I have about here and there, home and away...so I guess I'll have to be our trip planner.

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It's certainly a different experience taking 17 and 20 year old kids to Europe instead of travelling with toddlers! We waited on this big trip until they were older and it made things easier all around. We saw lots of little kids this summer who were so bored in museums and castles and old town squares - my favourite was a boy about 3 who laid down in the chapel at the Salzburg fortress and simply refused to get back up when his parents were ready to leave. I was tired and hot by that point and kind of wanted to join him on the ground!

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I always love your newsletters!

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Thanks so much, Melanie!

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This was all so fascinating to me, having just finished this novel and also being haunted by it in a way, but not having any experience at all with Appalachia. Thank you for expanding my experience of both Demon and my education about Appalachia.

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I'm always curious about how people who aren't familiar with the area experience the book! My partner is about to start reading and I'm definitely going to be grilling him about every page!

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I don't like the stereotypes that developed around Appalachian people but some of them didn't come out of thin air. As you write yourself, you were very closed off to other cultures and religions. I've met great, friendly people in that region but some of those great, friendly people also held very bigoted beliefs, out of ignorance - sure, but they also had a prideful type of stubbornness to keep them ignorant because they liked their biases. I particularly encountered an extreme level of religious bigotry in that region.

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